Archive for the ‘lifestyle’ Category
Friday, February 27th, 2009
Some couples have a truly amazing, exotic sex life that’s enough to make most anyone jealous.
But there’s more to a great sex life than endless sexual adventures and erotic games.
It’s not even about those amazing mind-shattering orgasms that many have heard about, but few have ever experienced.
The real secret lies in really playing together and being completely open with your lover, your playmate, your partner in crime. Open up and share your fantasies, and indulge your partner in theirs. That’s the well kept secret of those with the truly incredible sex lives.
So… How About a Threesome? Or Maybe Even Swinging?
In expanding their sex lives, many couples come across that point where they consider a threesome - or even consider inviting another couple into their bedroom. Gasp!
Sure, bringing another woman into their bed is possibly the most popular male fantasy of all time. But finding that ever elusive single girl that […]
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Monday, September 29th, 2008
Swinging can be a fun and enjoyable way to expand your sexual relationship with your partner and spice up things in the bedroom. Inexperienced swingers, however, may find that the first few times are a little nerve wracking, especially if it involves a group of people. If you find yourself being nervous during a swinging session, you might need to back up a little bit until you get more comfortable. Dear Dan and Jennifer, My wife and I just experienced our first swinger encounter, I am a very lucky man in having a wife that is so open to this. She was great – I, however, was a little nervous - so nervous that I had a difficult time getting an erection (this has never happened before!). I don’t know if it was the fact that I was being watched by 15 people or […]
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Monday, May 26th, 2008
Many couples, especially those who have been together for a long time, are interested in swinging. If you and your partner find yourselves interested in swinging, take heart. It’s totally normal and healthy to want to experience your sexuality outside of your current relationship. It’s also normal to be scared. There are a lot of ways that swinging can go wrong, especially if it’s something you’ve never done before. How can you get over your fears? Is swinging right for you? Make sure swinging is right for you. Dear Dan and Jennifer, My husband wants to start swinging, I would like too also but I was a virgin when we met at 15yrs old… and now 37yrs old to be with another man seems so weird and scary… How do I get past my nerves and fears? - Sandy, Las Vegas Watch […]
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Friday, April 18th, 2008
Open marriages – are they always a bad idea? Are they ever a good idea? Every individual and every couple is different. What an open marriage means to one couple may mean something entirely different to another. Many things come into play when you start thinking about sharing your partner with someone else – and there’s lots of room for hurt feelings, jealousy and even feelings for the outside partner. How can you sort out whether or not having an open marriage is a good idea for you and your partner? Dear Dan and Jennifer, I’m married, have a child and pregnant with second. My husband introduce the idea of "Open Marriage”. I do not see signs of him cheating so this is not an excuse for him to seek affairs. I started to have straying thoughts lately, because of my unsatisfied […]
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Wednesday, March 26th, 2008
We have heard so many stories about couples that were confronted or "outed" by friends, family or co-workers about their "lifestyle" and they simply didn’t know what to say. Caught off guard, they stumbled, mumbled and bumbled through their explanation, leaving little or no doubt that they were indeed "Swingers". "If my (mother, boss, kids, etc…) knew what we do… they’d disown us! It would be a disaster!" We have heard it 1,000 times. Interestingly, in most instances the opposite is the case. A countless number of couples have told us that when their family and friends did find out, things actually got better, not worse. Coming Clean In our case, Tess thought her conservative family would freak out if they discovered our personal lives (and our lifestyle related business!). Then, one New Year’s Day, we awoke to a phone call from her mom. Still groggy, Tess stepped over […]
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Monday, March 10th, 2008
What guy hasn’t fantasized about a threesome? Even married guys have the occasional “swinging” wet dream now and then. However, facing the realities of actually sharing the love of your life with another man or woman for the first time gives rise to questions and insecurities that were never there before. How do you deal with them in a way that satisfies both partners? Dear Dan and Jennifer, Hi, I’ve fallen deeply in love with the woman of my dreams who happens to be bisexual but also an experienced swinger. I myself have fantasized about such things but have little experience. I am confused by my emotions of seeing my lady with another man. Although I am not bi I’m willing to experiment with another male for her, and its a funny thing that this causes less stress then seeing her with another man. I have no […]
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