Some couples have a truly amazing, exotic sex life that’s enough to make most anyone jealous.
But there’s more to a great sex life than endless sexual adventures and erotic games.
It’s not even about those amazing mind-shattering orgasms that many have heard about, but few have ever experienced.
The real secret lies in really playing together and being completely open with your lover, your playmate, your partner in crime. Open up and share your fantasies, and indulge your partner in theirs. That’s the well kept secret of those with the truly incredible sex lives.
So… How About a Threesome? Or Maybe Even Swinging?
In expanding their sex lives, many couples come across that point where they consider a threesome - or even consider inviting another couple into their bedroom. Gasp!
Sure, bringing another woman into their bed is possibly the most popular male fantasy of all time. But finding that ever elusive single girl that […]

Many times, after about six or seven years of a relationship or marriage, the sex life tends to dwindle. As time goes on, the sex life continues to dwindle and sex with your partner becomes routine. Your interest in sex with your partner may lessen, but this doesn’t mean that you love your partner less or your relationship is doomed. It just means your relationship has progressed naturally!  Can having a threesome bring the spice back into your partnership? You had mentioned the other day that some therapists actually recommend bringing a third person into the bedroom to spice up your sex life. Please explain… Wait! Give this Video 5 Stars and Subscribe Today so you don’t miss a single video. Threesomes aren’t for everyone. … Continued on next page >>       Pages:   1 2 Read more…

Nowadays, you hear so much about open relationships and swinging, where partners will team up with other couples (or even go their separate ways) to have new and fun sexual experiences with other people. You also sometimes hear how this is essentially a recipe for disaster, but you’ve thought about it and it sounds like something you might want to try. Can an open relationship or swinging relationship ever actually work? Can swinger and open relationships really work or are they just a recipe for disaster? Wait! Give this Video 5 Stars and Subscribe Today so you don’t miss a single video. Yes, for strong couples. … Continued on next page >>       Pages:   1 2 Read more…

If you’re new to the swinging game, picking a partner that satisfies you and your husband or wife can seem kind of intimidating. You’re not alone! You’re right to be a little nervous about picking a swinging partner, especially if it’s your first time. You need to pick a swinging partner that you are both comfortable with and attracted to, or trouble can brew. If you and your partner can’t agree on who to swing with, should you compromise? Dear Dan and Jennifer,   My wife and I want to get into swinging. We’ve been talking about it for a little over 2 years now. She was the one who approached me with the idea. We have joined a swing site but the problem is that my wife doesn’t like my taste in woman.   I’m not into super thin women I like a […]

You and your partner have decided to have a threesome. You may even have someone in mind that you and your partner have both agreed on. If you’re about to take the plunge into the world of multiple partner sex, you may have a few questions on how to do it safely. Congratulations! Not everyone has safety on their mind before having a threesome. Here are some great ways to have safety in numbers. Dear Dan and Jennifer,   Hi.   Just wanted to say I think it is great what you two do.  My question is my girlfriend and I want to have a threesome with another female and we have one lined up. I know to use a condom but what about oral and other kinds of play? We don’t want to come home with some kind of STD.   Do you have any advice for […]

So you and your partner are thinking about swinging. Whether you’ve tried it once before or this is your first time, it can be nerve wracking when trying to ease yourself into the swinging lifestyle. How can you start swinging slowly, and in a way that makes both partners completely comfortable? While the only rules for swinging for you are set by you and your partner, there are some general guidelines that can help make things easier for the both of you. Dear Dan and Jennifer,   My fiancée and I are talking about trying the swinging lifestyle and we are a little unsure of how to start and move into it gradually so that everyone is comfortable. What do you suggest?   - Randa, Alabama Wait! Give this Video 5 Stars and Subscribe Today so you don’t miss a […]

Many couples, especially those who have been together for a long time, are interested in swinging.  If you and your partner find yourselves interested in swinging, take heart. It’s totally normal and healthy to want to experience your sexuality outside of your current relationship.  It’s also normal to be scared. There are a lot of ways that swinging can go wrong, especially if it’s something you’ve never done before.  How can you get over your fears?  Is swinging right for you? Make sure swinging is right for you. Dear Dan and Jennifer,   My husband wants to start swinging, I would like too also but I was a virgin when we met at 15yrs old… and now 37yrs old to be with another man seems so weird and scary… How do I get past my nerves and fears?   - Sandy, Las Vegas Watch […]

Open marriages – are they always a bad idea?  Are they ever a good idea?  Every individual and every couple is different.  What an open marriage means to one couple may mean something entirely different to another. Many things come into play when you start thinking about sharing your partner with someone else – and there’s lots of room for hurt feelings, jealousy and even feelings for the outside partner.  How can you sort out whether or not having an open marriage is a good idea for you and your partner? Dear Dan and Jennifer,   I’m married, have a child and pregnant with second. My husband introduce the idea of "Open Marriage”. I do not see signs of him cheating so this is not an excuse for him to seek affairs. I started to have straying thoughts lately, because of my unsatisfied […]

We have heard so many stories about couples that were confronted or "outed" by friends, family or co-workers about their "lifestyle" and they simply didn’t know what to say. Caught off guard, they stumbled, mumbled and bumbled through their explanation, leaving little or no doubt that they were indeed "Swingers". "If my (mother, boss, kids, etc…) knew what we do… they’d disown us! It would be a disaster!" We have heard it 1,000 times. Interestingly, in most instances the opposite is the case. A countless number of couples have told us that when their family and friends did find out, things actually got better, not worse. Coming Clean In our case, Tess thought her conservative family would freak out if they discovered our personal lives (and our lifestyle related business!). Then, one New Year’s Day, we awoke to a phone call from her mom. Still groggy, Tess stepped over […]

What guy hasn’t fantasized about a threesome? Even married guys have the occasional “swinging” wet dream now and then. However, facing the realities of actually sharing the love of your life with another man or woman for the first time gives rise to questions and insecurities that were never there before. How do you deal with them in a way that satisfies both partners? Dear Dan and Jennifer, Hi, I’ve fallen deeply in love with the woman of my dreams who happens to be bisexual but also an experienced swinger. I myself have fantasized about such things but have little experience. I am confused by my emotions of seeing my lady with another man. Although I am not bi I’m willing to experiment with another male for her, and its a funny thing that this causes less stress then seeing her with another man. I have no […]