Archive for the ‘swinging’ Category
Tuesday, May 25th, 2010
Would you ever be open to swinging or having an open relationship? While the common reaction to this question is “hell no!” what if you are open to the idea? How do you tell your partner? Most importantly, how do you keep it from ruining your relationship? First and foremost, it doesn’t have to ruin your relationship (although many swear it will). You must be open-minded, trusting of your partner, and ready for lots of honest communication. Opening your relationship is not something to be entered into lightly.
Broaching The Subject
If you think your partner might be open to swinging, just be honest. Tell him or her that you might want to talk about doing it someday. Feel out the reaction. You don’t have to make a decision right away, and it may take several conversations before you decide if you want to proceed.
Getting Started
Talk it out, talk a little more…and then talk […]
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Saturday, December 26th, 2009
Open relationships and swinging topics were more popular this year than ever before. With songs like Britney Spears’ “3,” having a threesome is on everyone’s mind. Lots of people have already experienced a threesome, and many are still curious about how to swing and have a good time with your partner and your friends. Swinging, however, takes a bit more finesse and planning than simply getting drunk and fooling around if you want it to be successful. One of our favorite topics on Ask Dan And Jennifer is swinging, from everything on how to tell if your relationship is ready for swinging to what to do if you’re curious about having a threesome. Take a look at some of our favorite threesome and swinger articles of 2009, because next year, threesomes and swinging might just be even hotter!
Britney Spears “3? – Are Threesomes “In?” (Video)
I’m Attracted To Girls – How Can […]
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Sunday, October 4th, 2009
Swinging can be fun, but sometimes one or more people find themselves in an uncomfortable situation. Can “swinging gone wrong” be prevented? How do you figure out what went wrong so it doesn’t happen again – or is there nothing you can do to keep uncomfortable swinger situations from cropping up?
A swinging situation involving rough sex goes wrong – what went wrong and how could it have been avoided? What you need to know to prevent swinging mishaps from happening to you!
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Communication, Communication, Communication
When it comes to communicating with your partner before swinging, and your potential swinging partners, there just isn’t enough. You simply can’t go overboard when you talk to your significant other and your friends before, during and even after each swinging session. The “before swinging” talk is the most important, especially if you’re with a new couple. Get to know your […]
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Tuesday, September 29th, 2009
When it comes to swinging, setting the boundaries can seem awfully intimidating. Subconsciously, you might not want to set the boundaries because you’re nervous about swinging or you’re afraid of being rejected by your partner. You might not know how to talk to your partner about swinging, or how to begin setting the boundaries for what you’re comfortable with and what your partner is comfortable with. You’re curious about swinging, so what should you do?
A wife is interested in swinging and attracted to sexual encounters with girls (and guys), but is uncomfortable with the idea of letting her husband play too. Is this normal? Where can she set the boundaries?
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Complications Of Swinging
One of the problems that many couples have with swinging is that one of the partners wants to play with others, but they’re uncomfortable with their partner playing with anyone else. That’s why […]
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Tuesday, September 15th, 2009
Swinging seems taboo, but more and more couples are talking about it as a way to spice up their sex lives. Swinging can be fun and can involve flirting, roleplaying, watching or going all the way with other couples. Not everything is right for everybody though, so here’s how to find your swinging comfort zone so you and your partner can have fun and have a fun, exciting sex life!
How can someone interested in swinging establish their own comfort zone and boundaries so they can have a fun and exciting sexual experience?
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Challenging Your Comfort Zones
Many couples are afraid to start swinging because – duh – it’s completely out of your sexual comfort zone. Especially if you’ve been with your partner for years, starting to swing is just like dating all over again. You’re nervous meeting people, nervous about having a physical relationship with them…it’s […]
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Saturday, August 22nd, 2009
Sadly, most people think swinging is all about indiscriminate sex. This is the reason so many people join Adult Friend Finder, as they assume that “it’s the largest swingers dating site, so it must be the best place to hook up.” But there’s a reason why their average account lasts less than 4 months.
The little known truth about swinging is that you “come for the sex, but stay for the friendships.”
And that’s why in the lifestyle Adult Friend Finder is known as “every swingers first mistake” - we all saw the member counts, joined in hopes of hooking up and left with a hollow feeling.
The Dirty On Swinging
So why isn’t swinging just indiscriminate sex? For the same reason it wasn’t when you were in college. There has to be some physical and mental chemistry and a high level of mutual attraction to create an erotic, lustful situation where you want to […]
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Monday, September 29th, 2008
Swinging can be a fun and enjoyable way to expand your sexual relationship with your partner and spice up things in the bedroom. Inexperienced swingers, however, may find that the first few times are a little nerve wracking, especially if it involves a group of people. If you find yourself being nervous during a swinging session, you might need to back up a little bit until you get more comfortable. Dear Dan and Jennifer, My wife and I just experienced our first swinger encounter, I am a very lucky man in having a wife that is so open to this. She was great – I, however, was a little nervous - so nervous that I had a difficult time getting an erection (this has never happened before!). I don’t know if it was the fact that I was being watched by 15 people or […]
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Saturday, August 2nd, 2008
You’ve made the jump into swinging. Congratulations! It takes a lot of courage to make the foray into swinging. There’s a reason for that though. Swinging doesn’t always work the way we hope it to. What do you do when swinging goes wrong? What happens if there’s a rift between you and your partner after swinging? What do you do? Dear Dan and Jennifer, My husband got quite close to his client. They eventually became attracted to each other. All 4 of us became close socially. Eventually we began to talk about a swap. We went on a short holiday. Both of them were very close and comfy with each other. Her husband and I were not and the situation got very uncomfortable. Nothing happened between any of the couples. But our marriages have been affected. My husband is still close to her. […]
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Tuesday, July 29th, 2008
If you’re looking to spice up your sex life, you might be looking into swinging. Swinging with a third person or even another couple can bring a new aspect of fun and excitement into your sex life that you never thought possible. Some couples aren’t ready for swinging. You have to be comfortable, confident and above all, open and honest with each other. Do you have what it takes to be swingers? Dear Dan and Jennifer, I have a huge dilemma. My wife and I are very sexual, and have discussed at length our interest in the swinging lifestyle. We are both dying to explore the beginning stages, but have a problem. Besides being totally inexperienced, we are not physically fit and although we are very fun and engaging and have a lot of social adventures, we feel too uncomfortable to approach […]
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Tuesday, July 15th, 2008
Many times, after about six or seven years of a relationship or marriage, the sex life tends to dwindle. As time goes on, the sex life continues to dwindle and sex with your partner becomes routine. Your interest in sex with your partner may lessen, but this doesn’t mean that you love your partner less or your relationship is doomed. It just means your relationship has progressed naturally! Can having a threesome bring the spice back into your partnership? You had mentioned the other day that some therapists actually recommend bringing a third person into the bedroom to spice up your sex life. Please explain… Wait! Give this Video 5 Stars and Subscribe Today so you don’t miss a single video. Threesomes aren’t for everyone. … Continued on next page >> Pages: 1 2 Read more…
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